Melinda French Gates
“When we invest in women and girls, we are investing in the people who invest in everyone else.” That’s indeed how we can change the world, and the best part is that despite the tremendous experience she has on the subject, Melinda French Gates neither makes the book prescriptive, nor makes it about herself.
The book is only about 270 pages, but it covers a whole lot of ground. From maternal and newborn health, to the importance of contraceptives and family planning, to education for girls, the unpaid work that women do, and gender inequity in the workplace, it is clear that nothing in this context is an isolated problem. And to solve them, the work has to be done at both the macro and micro level. While many of the anecdotes are heartbreaking, it is a testament to the narration that one closes the last page with hope.
There are two things that impressed me a lot. The first is an intellectual honesty with which she approaches each subject. Right from “American billionaires giving away money will mess everything up” – she provides the reasons for this towards the end of the book, and there is a tremendous objectivity at work here. The second is the understanding that there is much learning to do. Several times in the book, she admits that she writes from a position of privilege, and there are aspects that took her time to grasp. But she spends the time to listen and learn. That’s also why she lets others tell their stories.
These are women in Africa and Asia who have been directly affected, but have had the courage and will to create a solution. There is compelling data, but what’s more moving is the humanity of it. The school on a railway platform, the BandhanTod network, Avahan – simple things that one wouldn’t think is a problem, or access to necessities one takes for granted, is a struggle for many others. Leymah’s story about the Liberian Women’s initiative carried an important lesson about how successful social movements needed a combination- strong activism and the ability to take pain without passing it on. That second part underlines why women are best placed to heal the angst that the world experiences every day.
The only exception (to letting others tell their story) is when she believes that her own experiences can get people to think differently. I found her perspectives on marriage and empathy at the workplace extremely insightful.
In the book, Melinda, quotes Mary Maxwell Gates – “From those to whom much is given, much is expected”. From whatever I have read, Melinda French Gates is on it! It is not just the empathy she shows towards those who are less fortunate, but the active steps she has been taking to overcome the obstacles that hold women back. The book is a compelling read, and a great learning experience.
