{"id":97,"date":"2004-08-18T18:54:00","date_gmt":"2004-08-18T13:24:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/?p=97"},"modified":"2021-01-02T13:23:00","modified_gmt":"2021-01-02T07:53:00","slug":"fear-factor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/2004\/08\/18\/fear-factor\/","title":{"rendered":"Fear Factor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nope, AXN is not paying me for the publicity (as if)..hehe.., oops, i am not paying them royalty either&#8230;oh well, the balance of life&#8230; the disclaimer &#8211; this post is also on the lines of some previous posts, in terms of general direction, that is &#8211; why we do the things we do&#8230;..<br \/>\nin one of my previous posts, i had written about sex being the principal driver of our actions&#8230;but though the arguments were compelling, i realise that there are some times where the argument draws a blank&#8230;<br \/>\nfor example, as kids, we dont have conscious thoughts of sex, maybe it exists in some form in the sub conscious, but definitely not as overt feelings..<br \/>\nso i looked for one emotion that at least equals sex in terms of being a driver &#8211; fear&#8230;<br \/>\nfrom birth to death , there are zillions of situations where fear has propelled us to do the things we did&#8230;<br \/>\ncry coz you were afraid you wouldn&#8217;t get fed&#8230;..<br \/>\nate the food coz you were afraid of the big bad wolf that would come to get you, if you didnt eat<br \/>\nrefused to go to school coz you were afraid of the bullies, teachers etc<br \/>\ndidnt go into a dark room coz you wera afraid of ghosts<br \/>\ndid the homework coz you were afraid of being punished<br \/>\ninsisted on the cricket gear coz you were afraid you wouldnt be allowed to play without it<br \/>\ntook a career path coz you were afraid of being called a failure<br \/>\nthought hundred times about proposing to your girl\/boyfriend coz you were afraid of rejection<br \/>\nsmoked\/boozed coz you were afraid you wouldnt match up to your peer group&#8217;s standards otherwise<br \/>\nthought hundred times about proposing to your girl\/boyfriend coz you were afraid of commitment<br \/>\nbelieved in God coz you were afraid of His wrath<br \/>\nlet your dreams meander away coz you were afraid that if you followed them, your life would meander away<br \/>\ndidnt help an accident victim coz you were afraid that it would take too much of you time\/energy<br \/>\ndeveloped multiple masks coz you were afraid to show your real personality<br \/>\nthought twice about posting this coz i was afraid people would think of my line of thought as an obsession.. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>all this and much much more&#8230; maybe if i could only stop being afraid, i could be what i wanted to be and do all the things i wanted to do.. and then FDR&#8217;s words rings across my mind -&#8221; there is nothing to fear, but fear itself&#8221;<br \/>\nbut what you dont have to fear is<br \/>\nmanuscrypts trivia<br \/>\na link thats a must see&#8230;only instructions are to take the pointer to the guy&#8217;s nose after the site is fully loaded<\/p>\n<p>a shot in the arm for indian sports (pun intended?)<br \/>\nand a great forward<br \/>\nI wanted to thank all my friends and family who have forwarded chain letters to me in 2003 &amp; 2004. Because of your kindness:<br \/>\n* I stopped drinking Coca Cola after I found out that it&#8217;s good for removing toilet stains.<br \/>\n* I stopped going to the movies for fear of sitting on a needle infected with AIDS.<br \/>\n* I smell like a wet dog since I stopped using deodorants because they cause cancer.<br \/>\n* I don&#8217;t leave my car in the parking lot or any other place and sometimes I even have to walk about 7 blocks for fear that someone will drug me with a perfume sample and try to rob me.<br \/>\n* I also stopped answering the phone for fear that they may ask me to dial a stupid number and the I get a phone bill from hell with<br \/>\ncalls to Uganda, Singapore and Tokyo.<br \/>\n* I also stopped drinking anything out of a can for fear that I will get sick from the rat feces and urine.<br \/>\n* When I go to parties, I don&#8217;t look at any girl no matter how hot she is, for fear that she will take me to a hotel, drug me then take my kidneys and leave me taking a nap in a bathtub full of ice.<br \/>\n* I also donated all my savings to the Amy Bruce account. A sick girl that was about to die in the hospital about 7,000 times. (Funny<br \/>\nthat girl, she&#8217;s been 7 since 1993&#8230;)<br \/>\n* I went bankrupt from bounced checks that I made expecting the $15,000 that Microsoft and AOL were supposed to send me when I<br \/>\nparticipated in their special e-mail program would arrive soon.<br \/>\n* My free Nokia phone never arrived and neither did the free passes for a paid vacation to Disneyland.<br \/>\n*Made myself sick trying to call divya singh (Siemens employee) who needs help for her hubby suffering from Lung cellular cancer<br \/>\nespecially when she was not married!!<br \/>\nIMPORTANT NOTE:<br \/>\nIf you do not make this into an e-mail and send it to at least 1200 people in the next 10 seconds, a bird will crap on your head today at 5:30pm \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nope, AXN is not paying me for the publicity (as if)..hehe.., oops, i am not paying them royalty either&#8230;oh well, the balance of life&#8230; the disclaimer &#8211; this post is also on the lines of some previous posts, in terms of general direction, that is &#8211; why we do the things we do&#8230;.. in one <a class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/2004\/08\/18\/fear-factor\/\">[&hellip;]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6052,1479,412],"tags":[454],"class_list":["post-97","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-choices","category-thoughtstream","category-life","tag-fear"],"aioseo_notices":[],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=97"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15181,"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97\/revisions\/15181"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=97"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=97"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=97"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}