{"id":16213,"date":"2022-05-15T10:20:00","date_gmt":"2022-05-15T04:50:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/?p=16213"},"modified":"2022-04-17T11:57:44","modified_gmt":"2022-04-17T06:27:44","slug":"the-rules-of-civility","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/2022\/05\/15\/the-rules-of-civility\/","title":{"rendered":"The Rules of Civility"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Amor Towles<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cFor however inhospitable the wind, from this vantage point Manhattan was simply so improbable, so wonderful, so obviously full of promise \u2014 that you wanted to approach it for the rest of your life without ever quite arriving.\u201d That last bit, that’s how I feel about some books. This is one those, just like “A Gentleman in Moscow”. I have to admit a bias because that book is among my all-time favourites.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In the preface, we meet Katey Kontent (originally a Russian immigrant Katya), who, in an exhibition in 1966, sees the photograph of an old acquaintance Tinker Grey. It catches him underweight, with a visibly dirty face, ill shaven, in a threadbare coat. As Katey’s memories come flooding back, she decides to leave, but catches another photo of Tinker at the exit – clean shaven, in a custom-made shirt and a cashmere coat. The second was from year before the first, prompting Katey’s husband Val to say “riches to rags”. “Not exactly” is Katey’s response, because in the first, Tinker’s eyes were bright and he had the slightest hint of a smile on his lips. And that sets the stage for a wonderful ride that starts on the last night on 1937, one Katey met Tinker for the first time.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The photographs remind Katey not just of Tinker, but a mix of people who would play important roles in her life – Wallace Wolcott, Dicky Vanderwhile, Anne Grandyn, and her best friend at that time – Evelyn Ross. And then there is New York, or specifically Manhattan whose different shades also appear, as Katey’s life changes. Amidst the parties, cocktails, flings and high-heels, there are extremely well-etched characters (some really powerful women among them), all different from each other, and all with moments of deep poignancy.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anything more and I think I’d take way the joy of discovering the layers of the book, and the sharp revelations too. Enjoy the ride.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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To describe the book, I’d apply the author’s own words, which he used for Manhattan – ‘you wanted to approach it for the rest of your life without ever quite arriving.’ Through a flashback triggered by a photograph, we see the journey of a woman, the society she was part of, and the different shades of Manhattan. A vivid, glorious, and poignant ride. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[370,6004,6007],"tags":[5984,6476],"class_list":["post-16213","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-books","category-favourites","category-fiction","tag-amor-towles","tag-rules-of-civility"],"aioseo_notices":[],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16213","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16213"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16213\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16266,"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16213\/revisions\/16266"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16213"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16213"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16213"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}