{"id":14528,"date":"2021-05-16T12:42:00","date_gmt":"2021-05-16T07:12:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/?p=14528"},"modified":"2021-04-11T12:40:20","modified_gmt":"2021-04-11T07:10:20","slug":"12-rules-for-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/2021\/05\/16\/12-rules-for-life\/","title":{"rendered":"12 Rules for Life"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><em>Jordan B Peterson<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Though the book is categorised as &#8220;self help&#8221;, and has the kind of material that would qualify it for that label (if you&#8217;re so inclined), I read it more as a bunch of perspective on living and being. Or rather, Being, as the author prefers. And perspectives there are &#8211; the psychology professor and practitioner refers to the thoughts of everyone from Nietzsche, Solzhenitsyn and Dostoevsky to Milton and Jung. Not to mention theology &#8211; Tao, Buddha and especially the Bible play a part too. To the extent that even the Pareto principle gets connected to a Bible reference.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p>The statement of the rules, are mostly straightforward (Tell the truth &#8211; or, at least, don&#8217;t lie) but seem to be bracketed by more quirky ones at the end &#8211; the last one is &#8220;Pet a cat when you encounter one on the street&#8221;. I found the perspectives to be thought-provoking, and especially liked the interpretations of Bible stories and the fairy tales we&#8217;re all familiar with. Adam and Eve, Cain and Abel, The Sleeping beauty are all stories that I now look at differently. And (unpopular opinion ahead), having been at the receiving end of the tantrums of ill-tempered kids in public places, I would encourage parents to read Rule #5 &#8220;Do not let your children do anything that makes you dislike them&#8221;. But I can already see parents frowning at me after reading it.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To be honest, until the end of Rule #10, I found his arguments by and large persuasive, despite occasional logic lapses, biases, and convenient interpretations. Rule #11 made me think quite deeply, because the deceptively simplistic &#8220;<em>Do not bother children when they are skateboarding<\/em>&#8220;, which begins harmlessly enough with the reason for the title, soon escalates into a full blown war with the &#8220;woke&#8221; world. What worried me was that the narrative was not completely incoherent and appealed to a part of me which believed that &#8220;overprotection&#8221; will eventually lead to a loss of resilience as a species, and narrower and narrower &#8220;tribes&#8221; will result in a groups of one, each of which will get outraged over something!\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The professor though, went full throttle enough to make me question his belief systems. Add to that, the last chapter was classic self-help, and the coda at the end, insipid theology to me. However, I&#8217;d still suggest a read simply because it&#8217;s a good stimulus to reflect on one&#8217;s own belief and value systems, and as Rule #9 goes, &#8220;<em>Assume the person you&#8217;re listening to might know something you don&#8217;t<\/em>&#8220;.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P.S. In the author&#8217;s view, chaos is feminine. Interesting that &#8220;an antidote to chaos&#8221; is part of the title.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"742\" height=\"1024\" data-src=\"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/12-Rules-for-Life-742x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-15768 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/12-Rules-for-Life-742x1024.jpg 742w, https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/12-Rules-for-Life-217x300.jpg 217w, https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/12-Rules-for-Life-768x1060.jpg 768w, https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/12-Rules-for-Life-600x828.jpg 600w, https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/12-Rules-for-Life.jpg 847w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 742px) 100vw, 742px\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 742px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 742\/1024;\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A very interesting set of perspectives about living and being, referencing the thoughts of everyone from Nietzsche and Dostoevsky to Milton and Jung. I might not agree with a bunch of perspectives, but it did give me an opportunity to question my own value system and beliefs. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[370,6003,6005],"tags":[6384,6385],"class_list":["post-14528","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-books","category-non-fiction","category-worldview","tag-12-rules-for-life","tag-jordan-b-peterson"],"aioseo_notices":[],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14528","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14528"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14528\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15769,"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14528\/revisions\/15769"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14528"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14528"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/manuscrypts.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14528"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}